Most of my entries are "friends only" because I like a little privacy. I'm pretty new to LJ and I'm finding that my journal entries are becoming more personal. I am becoming more careful with my friends list because it feels uncomfortable to have people there who don't comment or feel like lurkers rather than friends. Don't be offended if I "unfriend" you; it just means I need to get to know you better before I let you into the more personal areas of my life. I may take some time to "friend you as well, until I get to know you. I love LJ but I need to manage the time I spend here and keeping my friends list in check helps with that.